Chastity
A cage, a padlock, a key entrusted to someone else.
A padlock, a key handed over. Chastity is a long-term commitment: it builds patience, shifts desire and is a constant reminder of who has been given control.
My lock is held on Chastify: the keyholder decides how long it lasts, and I can't free myself without them. The counter on the site shows how long the cage has been locked.
The gear I use

Bee Sting chastity cage: the sting that keeps me on a leash
My Lockink Bee Sting chastity cage: a connected electrostimulation cage, controlled by an app, that turns waiting into unpredictable stings.

Rubberfashion latex briefs with cock ring: my gear sheet
Rubberfashion latex briefs with a cock ring that I pull on over my chastity cage and my plug: support, sensations, use with the Lovense Ferri, care.