Bondage and restraint
Padlocks, corsets, lockable pieces: being restrained is, first of all, surrendering to someone else.
Ropes, straps, cuffs: being held is first of all placing yourself in someone else's hands. Stillness soothes, time slows down, and every carefully tied knot becomes a mark of attention.
In my outfit, restraint comes mostly from what locks with a key: the dress, the ankle boots, the corsets that hold the waist and the neck. Once locked, nothing comes off without the key.
The gear I use

1 mm latex corset: my black rubber cincher that tightens the waist
My 1 mm natural rubber latex corset: the feeling of tightness, how I wear it in sessions and the simple care that keeps it shiny.

Black latex neck corset: the rubber collar that holds my neck
My black latex neck corset, handmade and unisex: what it is, the held-neck feeling it gives me, how I wear it and how I care for it.

Long black and red lockable PVC dress, my maid outfit
My long, thin black and red PVC dress, lockable, maid style: the material, the enclosure it imposes and how I wear it.

Olomm lockable ankle boots: stiletto heels and padlocks
My black Olomm lockable ankle boots with stiletto heels and platform: a padlocked zip, a key that changes hands and a willing surrender.