My limits and my rules
Before writing to me or asking for a night of control, here is the framework. It's the same for everyone, and it's not negotiable.
The framework
- Adults only, on both sides.
- Nothing is sold, nothing is paid: this is not a service.
- My limits are set before the session and are not up for discussion during it.
- Whatever hasn't been agreed on doesn't happen.
- Respect and discretion: your anonymity is preserved, as is mine.
The safeword
- A safeword is agreed on before every session.
- I can stop the session at any time, without having to explain myself.
- You too: if something no longer feels right for you, we stop, and no one holds it against the other.
What I refuse
- Any exchange with a minor.
- Requests for photos or private content.
- Commercial solicitations and paid requests, in either direction.
- Any capture, recording or sharing of what happens during a session.
- Disrespectful or insistent messages.
- Revealing my identity: ShoSlave is a pseudonym, and it will stay that way.
- Arranging a meeting: this site is not meant for that.
Safety
- Breath play and restraint are never improvised: never without a trusted, trained and attentive person.
- Each device has its own rules of use, and I stick to them, whatever instruction I receive.
- What I publish is a personal account, not a guide or medical advice.
How a night goes
You make the request
Through the form on the "Control me" page: who you are, the night you'd like, and what you have in mind.
I reply to you
I read every request. Nothing is automatic: I accept, suggest something else or decline, without having to justify myself.
We set the framework
Before the night, we agree together on the duration, the limits and the safeword.
You take over
I send you the invitations on XToys and Chastify. The session takes place during my hours, from 11 pm to 6 am (Europe/Paris).